![]() ![]() At least this gave me the impression that she is-"Before I mute this, ima just say idgaf who hurt y'all. While the men have been going ham, I found it fascinating that the author of it seemed to finally get fed up after a couple of days or so. They've been interesting, to say the least. since I caught a tweet that simply said, "Black women don't cheat", I've been following it to see what the responses to it would be. If you happen to see yourself in any of this copy, let's also touch on what you should do to get your own love life back in order. But relational hypocrisy is also another topic for another time.įor now, let's look at some of the findings behind why women cheat. Secondly, it really is baffling how some folks will justify their own reckless behavior but will find the very same acts inexcusable if they are on the receiving end. Some are just flat-out delusional because they think that, so long as they only go out with ole' boy (the other man) from time to time or, if they do mess around, no actual penetration transpires, it's not "really cheating".įirst of all, yes it has. Some aren't sure if their husband is cheating or not, so they decide to sleep around, "just in case". I can't emphasize enough how many don't know how to leave an ex alone. Some are sexually bored and uninspired in their relationship (bookmark that, I'll circle back to it in just a bit). Some feel emotionally disconnected from their husband. I'd say that as far as who has cheated on whom, it's the wives that have had the upper hand especially when it comes to micro-cheating, emotional affairs or "oral sex infidelity". For now, as far as my married friends and clients go, I'll be really real with y'all. As a former-sometimes-side-chick-in-recovery, I can definitely offer up some insight into that, chile. As far as personal experience goes, one day I'll get into why a lot of women are willing to ![]() More than a lil' bit, actually.īut before I dive into all of the stats and whatnot, let me just share a bit of what I have seen from my personal experience and interaction. As you're about to see in just a moment, women definitely do their fair share of creepin' around. I know I'm not the only one who can honestly say that, whenever most people think of cheaters and cheating, who they think of is men. Not because I am someone who is shocked by what I'm about to share (when you're a marriage life coach, you tend to hear it all) it's more that, when it comes to the topic of cheating/infidelity, and who participates in it, it really does seem a little one-sided when it comes to gender. If there was ever an article that needed the disclaimer "Hey, don't shoot the messenger" before it, this would have to be it. ![]()
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